With a master’s degree in social work and a certificate in financial planning, Nancy Oriola has held several positions in the elder care industry. After serving as president at the Care Management Group of New Mexico, Nancy Oriola created the Aging Life Network, a do-it-yourself resource for seniors and adults navigating the best way to care for aging loved ones.
Between 80 percent and 90 percent of seniors would prefer to live independently in their own homes for as long as they possibly can, and many would prefer to live with their families rather than in nursing homes. If a family decides that an aging parent should live at home with them, there are certain things to consider.
Moving an aging parent into a home will affect everyone, including spouses and children who live in the home. This can be an opportunity for multigenerational bonding, but it can also be a challenge for navigating space, privacy, and independence. While it may be cost-effective compared to a nursing home, unexpected expenses may arise, such as safety-proofing the home or making it wheelchair accessible.
Homeowners should consider installing bathroom rails and clearing tripping hazards to prevent falls. If the older adult has dementia or Alzheimer’s, installing safety measures to ensure the water in the shower doesn’t get too hot or that the gas in the oven doesn’t stay on all day are important considerations.
An older adult should also consider the stress of moving back home with a child. Since this is a transition into a phase of life with more dependence and more daily contact between parent and child, good communication is important to ensure it is the best decision for everyone involved.
